How can I feel loved, be love and give love, if ‘I’ don’t love myself, if I don’t accept myself, if I hate myself and my life as well? Are you crazy?!!!! You may be asking.
All the points you mention above are fairly valid. Anyone going through lack of love, will be very surprised and doubting they can feel loved. They may not even finish reading this article!
If you can please lend me your eyes for a little…
What is the purest love out there? Take a guess!
I think it’s a mother’s love. Hold on, keep reading. Yes, some mothers are warm and giving to their children and some are the exact opposite!
What then? Where is the solution??!
First of all, I chose to write about the love of a mother particularly because I believe it’s the purest form of love. It is giving without requesting anything in return. After all, how can a mother demand from her infant?
Yes, she will expect respect and kindness from her kids when they are all grown up. It’s only fair..
if you don’t know what a mother’s love should be like, why don’t you take a moment to think about it…
A mother’s love is everything that is beautiful. Many individuals grew up with a non-giving mothers. The mother did not show affection. This then created a lack of love and affection in the child. This emptiness remained with the child even when they reached adulthood.
Is there a way out??
Yes there is, through guided imagery therapy. What if you as an adult imagined that your mother had all the beautiful qualities that you would have wanted in your mother. Try to think of the most admirable quality you would have wished your mother had shown you. Now imagine this every morning, night and when you feel like you need to.
Would you be the same person?
I guarantee you would not be!!!